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RKGP Selecting a Mate Week 4 Newsletter

Bill Shackelford

6/22/2026

Make Your Next Relationship Last A Lifetime

Hello again everyone,

This month we’ve covered why choosing a partner thoughtfully is so important. The stability and joy of your future family depend greatly on this decision. To support you, we’ve bundled these concepts into an easy-to-follow training program.

Our Proven Process for Selecting A Good Mate module (part of the AP Academy Foundation series) includes:

  • A Six Step Process: We walk you through a proven process for mate selection, from initial attraction to long-term commitment, making sure nothing is overlooked.

  • Relationship Stage Framework: Understand how romance evolves through four stages (Infatuation, Exploration, Confirmation, Dedication) and which stage you are currently in.

  • Scorecard and Worksheets: Downloadable tools to clarify your partner preferences (i.e. Desired, Required, and Deal Breaker issues) and provide a framework for you to have meaningful discussions together.

  • Expert Guidance: Tips on communication and recognizing signs that suggest you might need to take things slower.

By using these resources, many couples avoid painful mistakes. In fact, one participant told us,

“The scorecard brought up things we never talked about – and because we talked

through them, we felt more united.”

That unity makes you a solid team, which is exactly the foundation every relationship needs.

Ready for More?

If you’re just starting your exploration of serious relationships, planning your marriage or already married, consider checking out the Proven Process for Selecting A Mate module at our store. It’s never too early (or too late) to build a stronger relationship. Your future family will thank you.

Take control of your future with a better process for selecting that individual who will be by your side to support you on your journey.

Let’s Grow Together!

Bill Shackelford, Founder
AP Academy and
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