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The Key Role Self-Esteem Plays In Parenting
RKGP Self-Esteem Week 1 Newsletter
Bill Shackelford
4/7/2026
The Key Role Self-Esteem Plays In Parenting: Week 1
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Introduction
Parenting success begins long before a child is born – it starts with you. One of the most important skills a parent can develop is self-esteem. This quiet inner confidence is what tells you, “I am capable. I matter. I can handle life.”
Adults with healthy self-esteem make clearer decisions, take appropriate responsibility, and model stability for their family. In contrast, when parents doubt themselves, they often react with fear, over protection, or stress – and those patterns can inadvertently pass on to children.
Think about it, the kind of parent you become flows from who you are as a person. And the kind of person you are depends in large part on the self-esteem you build in early adulthood.
We start our adulting and parenting training with a module on Building Self-Esteem because confidence and self-respect are the foundations of strong families. As you strengthen your self-esteem, you naturally model positive behavior and emotional security for your kids. They learn to love themselves and trust their own instincts by watching you.
Why It Matters
Self-esteem matters because every choice you make – from the career you pursue to the way you handle conflict at home and at work – is influenced by your belief in yourself. By investing in your own growth and tackling self-doubt head-on, you’re giving yourself permission to be confident and resilient
Assignment
Our Raising Kids / Growing Parents Podcast for this month is “The Key Role Self-Esteem Plays in Parenting” (Season 01, Episode 02). Click on the podcast picture below to listen to this podcast before your join us for Week 2 activities.
We are pleased you have joined us for this month-long discussion of this important adulting/parenting issue.
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